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The Perfect Cup of Tea

True story about tea: When we lived in the UK, I took a misstep at the top of a very tall flight of metal stairs, and ended up falling down the entire flight. It was as painful as you imagine. The first step in first aid on the part of my British co-workers? A sugary, milky, strong cup of tea. I kid you not. As far as Brits are concerned, TEA FIXES EVERYTHING. And 99% of the time, they’re right.

But I hate to break it to you, kids. The majority of Americans do not know how to properly brew a cup of tea, and thus have a horrible experience with it when they do.

Another true story about tea: one of my trips home to San Antonio after living in England, my Nan offered to make me a cuppa. (That’s British slang for hot tea. Keepin’ it real.)

She plopped a tea bag into a cold cup of water and stuck it in the microwave to heat. If you already know how to brew tea properly, you just cringed. Others of you may be asking, “What’s wrong with that?”. Yep, I’m looking at you.

You know how much I love my grandmother, and how she is the reason above all that I blog and cook and bake and live. But Nanny, that was the worst cup of tea ever. In the history of the world.

The reason for that is that tea leaves are delicate. They are incredibly sensitive to temperature. So much so, that even adding boiling water to a tea bag in a cold mug can shock the leaves into seizing, which results in incredibly bitter tea. Heating a tea bag in cold water did exactly the same thing.

Bitterness is the number one complaint I’ve heard from anyone who ever told me they didn’t like tea. So I’m going to tell you how to brew a proper cup of tea.

When brewed properly, tea is something to revel in. It will improve your life. I promise. I wouldn’t promise if I didn’t know it was true.

Plus, there’s something in it for me. I never want to have another cup of tea like what Nanny served up that one trip home. God bless her, it was the stuff of nightmares.

Here are the most important things about brewing a cup of tea:

  • For black tea, you must use boiling water. That means 212F. Luke warm water is not going to cut it.
  • Do not boil the water you’re going to infuse your tea with in the cup that you want to drink from.
  • However, your cup should be warmed before you add the tea bag or boiling water.
  • It is perfectly acceptable to add milk to black teas (English Breakfast, Earl Grey, Assam, Everyday), but not to teas with lots of citrus, apple, herbal or green tea. The milk will usually curdle.
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Now listen to me: Walk away for 3 to 5 minutes. If you like “Builder’s Tea”, i.e. really strong tea like a construction worker would enjoy, leave it untouched for the full 5 minutes.

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Remove the tea bag, then add milk, half and half, sugar, Splenda, whatever you fancy. You’ve just brewed the perfect cup of tea. Good work!

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I mean it, and I tell you this because I love you: A properly brewed cuppa is the stuff dreams are made of. In some instances, it’ll change your life. [wpurp-searchable-recipe]The Perfect Cup of Tea – – – [/wpurp-searchable-recipe]

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Saturday 21st of March 2015

[…] who knows me knows that since living in England, I’m obsessed with a perfect cup of tea. Usually I go for a strong every day tea, or Earl Grey, but I’ll certainly admit that a milky […]


Sunday 31st of March 2013

As a Brit who recently moved across the pond to the US (and thereby a huge tea drinker), I applaud your tea making instructions! However, there's one thing that you just can't do to your tea in America with the same result, and that's adding milk. The milk here is disgusting in hot tea! It's obviously processed differently and has a very different flavor. I've actually given up on milky tea and now will only drink it black in the US!


Sunday 31st of March 2013

I urge you to try tea with half and half. My British husband thoroughly approves! Or try organic milk or raw milk, you might find either is much more to your liking.


Thursday 20th of January 2011

I just mentioned to my workmates that I knew people that had grown up without ever using a kettle - there was a lot of disbelief.

Keep in mind that while strong black teas will almost always want milk adding, you dont have to add milk to black tea - some lighter teas (like darjeeling for example) can have their flavour completely obscured by the milk. Try Earl Grey (a medium tea) without milk, maybe a little sugar to bring the flavour forward, you might be surprised.

My favourite tea fact - during steeping (when you add boiling water and let the cup or teapot stand for a few minutes) the leaves will unfurl, this is called "the agony of the leaves".

denise burton

Tuesday 18th of January 2011

I never realized there was an art to making a cup of tea!! Gotta try this one after a rough day.


Tuesday 18th of January 2011

love, love a perfect cup of tea...paired with a clean kitchen, nothing is better,lol


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